与老人家相处真的是一件不容易的事. 好才的是,我不是与他们同住. 但我两个小瓜却是需要他们两老帮忙的照顾, 所以难免还会面对一些问题.
本应是一件幸福的事, 因有老人家帮忙照顾, 总可以放心点吧!! 但是家家有本难念的经. 唉! 人多是非自然就会多. 加上又多了一个佣人(maid)在那, 是非就自然更多啦!! (别小看这些maid哦!! 他们是很会打小报告的哦!)
今天我的maid就回来与我说到那两老的一些事情, 我的maid 本是好心想去逗她老人家的, 谁知她却不领情, 还很负气的对maid说: "你别管我的事情, 你去做你的, 别多事!! 你别来这里ka ka cau cau !! " maid很伤心的回来跟我说: "为何她要酱对我, 我又没有做错!! 我也是人来的!! 我也会有感受的! " 还有还有....一大堆的"是是非非" !!
究竟是~"谁是谁非"!! 唉, 我也分不清! 总而言之, "公说公有道, 婆说婆有理" !! 搞到现在他们两好像有心病了!! 我就夹在中间, 很难做人! 左右为难! 我在想, 如果她是我妈那就容易的多了; 但她却是他人的妈妈, 我就很难做了!! 唉!!! 怎么办呢???? 
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要你的佣人，不要做多余的事~
我总叮咛我佣人，无论那里说什么，
都别回答，笑笑带过就好~
你看过我的: 婆媳问题，么？
做该做的事就好了！！！
i can say, sometime my maid hor.. also very busy body one!!
and she is a very "keras kepala" that kind of person !! cakap pun tak mau dengar ....
i also dun no how to settle the case between them...
both of them also got their own good reasons....
headache headache very very headache .... !! :(
ya i did always tell my maid.. do whatever you suppose to do !!
but don't know why when she's there to help the elderly ... always create problems.. this is not the first time liao !! made me very fed-up already !!!!!!!!!!!!
那，就叫他闭嘴好了！！！
多做事少说话！！！
I dont understand why you shld stand btw them?
i heard about husband btw wife and parent la.
Never heard about wife stand btw a outsider "maid" and spouse's parent de lo...
whatever your "gong gong and lai lai" do is always right de la...
for your case la. shld more concern the insider more than the outsider de ma...
when facing your lai lai or gong gong you shld " ya lo ya lo... that stupid maid no use lo"
than when facing your maid " ya la... not ur fault, but old ppl ma... respect abit lo, they are like that 1"
everytime just do like this will do la.... your maid wont stay with u long-term de la... 1 or 2 years gua... but ur lai lai whole life de wor.... So cant 得罪 de...
So lucky not the conflict btw u and ur lai lai...
god bless u...
你好像很有经验哦。。
i agree with wengyin~
tell ur maid : WORK MORE BUT TALK LESS!!
ya, you are right !! but this maid also very problem one lah!!
very degil !!! and my in-law sometimes also very fussy one !!
so.... create problems lor...
haha.. ya i always do like that!! facing with who will talk what she like to hear la!!
but now my in-law dun want this maid already lor... they want to reject her !!
so i have to think to bring her back to agent, but agent said everything have to wait after CNY wor... !! so problem not final ... still have to carry on until after CNY lor.... very headache !!
是啊，现在要过年了，现在申请也是要等过年后咯，
你知道的啦，malaysia BOLEH!!
是咯是咯!!
没有啦。。。
感想罢了啦。。。我都是这样做的。。。
wah... like that arh？
than no choice but to c/f to the next period lo...
haiz... Happy CNY la...
put it aside 1st la... enjoy the festive season 1st...
既然是这样，在这个期间你就要做起衰人的角色咯。
唯有等到过年后才想咯。。
哈哈哈，过年大过天啊！！！
5 5 5 5 5 ！！！
也就是说你有佣人的烦恼？还是？
哈哈。。。本人<---好 好 好 好 好穷好穷，没有庸人哦。
人如人之间罢了。。。
wengyin & steven,
thanks for your advice and concern....
appreciate a lot !!
by the way wishing you all HAPPY NEW YEAR & GONG XI FA CAI !!! ^_*
恭喜发财，Go to your house ang bao na lai...
哦~
不谢啦~
818而已啦。。。
你也一样，开心过年哦！！！
ang pao no problem !!! how big you want !!
**i mean the size !! kakkkakaka.....
你有很大的红包哦？？！！
哈哈哈~
haha.. just DIY lor...
so how big you want !!! kakaka.......
你能做多大就多大啦，哈哈哈~
ok ok !!!
hahahah........
等你的咯。。。
ok lor.. pls be patient lor... kakakak....
我会的！！！
hahaha1....
yaya.... how big you can make also nevermind...
we will appreciated... hehe...
是的，心意嘛。。。
hehe... actually how the ang bao looks like it doesn't matter.
心意actually is the ingredient of the ang bao ma.... wahahahahaha....
u know wat i mean la.... hehe
你哦，真的很现实~~~
ingredient of the ang pow ... ok, no problem !!
心意... actually is not a matter of big or small, right !!? you got it ! haha.......
ya lor... ^_*
Wahahahahaha....
Joke only ma... 2 jie jie here bully xiao di di here.... LOL...
Happy Chinese New Year....
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