Monday, March 24, 2008

心结~儿子

还记得我之前提过的心结吗? 其实他是与我的儿子有关的!!

我的儿子, 他最近不懂为何, 每三天就有两晚发恶梦!! 当发梦时他会在那儿讲话, 但我们又听不懂, 更可怕的是, 他会在那还哭哭闹闹的!! 有时还一直在喊 ~~ 怕怕,  怕怕, 很怕...还一直的在拍他自己的心口!!

其实早在几个月前, 都已有这样的梦了, 只不过那时不是发的很密, 所以也不以为然!! 但最近真的很利害, 而且还真的很奇怪, 每次恶梦的时间都是会在凌晨的1:30a.m. 到 2:00a.m. 之间!! =.=" 有好几次都是刚刚的, 准准的是1:40a.m.!! 感觉上真的有点好像邪邪哦!! ~~ 怕怕!!

后来的后来....我也试图做了很多"东西"... 迷信的也做了...但是, 还是好像没什么好转似的!!

哎!! 我真的不知如何是好!! 我该做些什么呢? 嗯...该不该去看看医生呢? 如是的话, 那又要看什么医生呢? 还是.... 什么都不用做呢!! ?? 

哎!!  教我如何是好呢?!!   Question Mark 

 

40 comments:

Kidz Me said...

You try to wake him up during that time, see is it work? or try "心理医生"

¤ Jolie Gan ¤ said...

会不会小孩白天遇上什么了?

Wan Yen Chuah said...

ya.. did try to wake him up... but very difficult, after all he seems like 半梦半醒...after that sleep again until the next morning !! when u ask him, he seems don't know what was happened yesterday !! terrible !!

ya, i also think this b4 going to see "心理医生"!! but feel like very silly also .. haha !!

Wan Yen Chuah said...

嗯.... 小孩白天会遇上什么呢?
你的意思是... ??

Yvonne 小朋友~~ said...

会不会是讲梦话?。。。。我又讲的经历,早上一醒来就忘了,还是朋友提醒呢。。。
还是在你儿子之前还有一位孩子?但无法到人间来呢?。。。

Wan Yen Chuah said...

ya !! i agree, may be he is talking in the sleep ....
but he always talk with reaction one wor... ~~ stand up and cry and talk .... !!

**儿子之前还有一位孩子?**
emm.. I can assure that ~~ No lor !! ;p
by the way, thanks for your suggestions!! appreciate .... thanks....

¤ Jolie Gan ¤ said...

有时在学校啊~
功课上的问题
老师的方式啊
有时小孩不敢告诉父母的
憋在心里也会导致这样~

Wan Yen Chuah said...

emm.. ya, jolie i also agreed what you are saying ...
i have also wonder on this point, maybe something that they not dare to tell us ....
cos you know, got few times when he talking in the sleep.. he talk in malay and keep on calling "kakak.. kakak.. saya ... ngam ngam.. kakak...." , i only can hear the word kakak kakak.. so i also suspected that kakak lor.. !!

if trace back the record hor.. found that, after the new kakak came only my son starting to "mimpi" like that one lah ... so ... but ... I also dun no what should i say !!

七 禾页 said...

之前我的儿子还小的时候(大概一岁多),
每当到了半夜1.30am准会大哭大闹。
哭完之后就像没事的睡着。
刚开始的时候我没注意时间,
可是每晚都闹一轮之后就注意时间了。
试过不睡等着时间到,
果然一到1.30am就无端端的哭起来。
后来就听老人家的话,帮我儿子收惊才停止这一切的风波。

有时,不到你不信,到底有没有这回事。

Wan Yen Chuah said...

ya lor ya lor.. is almost like that lor...
emm.. i did also think of to help him "收惊" also...
but have to look for someone who know how lor !!
still looking on that ~~
thanks for your suggestions !!

七 禾页 said...

希望你的儿子很快就没事!!!

Wan Yen Chuah said...

hopefully lor... !!!
is really really worry ~~
thanks...

七 禾页 said...

是咯,每个父母都会的咯。
你的儿子几岁了?

Wan Yen Chuah said...

em.. he is 8 years old already ...

七 禾页 said...

哦,应该说得出什么早上发生过什么事情呀~

Wan Yen Chuah said...

早上发生过什么事情.....嗯... 应该就没有咯!!
但如你问他昨晚发过什么梦, 他可能会不知道, 而且也不记得!!

Yvonne 小朋友~~ said...

当然不记得啦。。。
是在潜意思里的东西,外人不能了解的。。。
我也是这样。。。到现在已有压力,就会讲梦话、磨牙等事情发生。。。
有人说,如小孩有酱的倾向,拿妈妈的鞋子打他的脸。。。目前对我没效了。。。

Wan Yen Chuah said...

哈哈... 是吗?
酱也可以哦!! 有趣 !!
嗯..我也不防试试看!!
谢谢你!!

七 禾页 said...

有可能早上发生的事情导致晚上有如此的行为。
所谓日有所思,夜有所梦。
不妨问一问你的儿子早上是否发生什么事?

Joey Chong said...

直接问小朋友早上发生过什么事情,也许问不出实情,不如试着慢慢套他的话,也许比较容易。
小朋友可能被吓倒,长期下去会对小朋友的身心发展有不良影响,要尽早解决。
看心理医生一点也不silly,有必要的话不妨带小朋友去看。
祝你的孩子早日康复。

Wan Yen Chuah said...

ya.. will try "lead" him to tell what is happening at morning ...
my be during school time also ... !!!
thanks for the suggestions... !!

Wan Yen Chuah said...

Joey, you are correct also.. may be i should try to "慢慢套他的话"...
and check what is happening.... or maybe someone from school is trying to threaten him or not... !!!
by the way, thanks for your warm regards !!

Xiao Ma said...

我并没有什么特别的意见..只希望你的儿子早日痊愈...因为我知道你非常地担心

Wan Yen Chuah said...

ya .... i am very worry !!
by the way, thanks for your regards, xiaoma !!

七 禾页 said...

问出了原因,记得告诉我们哦~

Wan Yen Chuah said...

ok ok ... !!! sure ...

Xiao Ma said...

u should know who is weng,jolie and lisa is it?why dont try to meet up?they're kind and nice...

七 禾页 said...

你在帮我们打广告?
哈哈哈~

Keith Leong said...

最好是看医生 ,就知道是什么问题 ,
也许近年来很多小孩子都是这样........

Keith Leong said...

我妈是护士 ,她问我你的儿子几多岁 ,
她说当然看医生啦 ,我问看什么医生 ,
她说可以看普通医生 ,比如伤风咳嗽之类的 。

Wan Yen Chuah said...

thanks for your suggestions, xiaoma !!
if really got chance... of couse i would like to meet them !! ^_*
but my place is quite far from their places ... hihi ... !!

Wan Yen Chuah said...

ya, he is very good ~~ to promote you all !! haha....

Wan Yen Chuah said...

thanks for your regards and suggestions...
dr. said is normal cos my son is considered as a "hyperactive kid" ...
too much of energy to be realeased ... haha!!
and dr. did mentioned try to avoid to give him to eat sweets, chocolate ... coke.. & the sweet sweet thing lor..

by the way, my son is already 8 years old ....
and would like to say ~ thanks to your mum too !! ^_*

Keith Leong said...

very happy to hear that your son is healthy and smiling ,
" hyperactive " , sometime I`m also , haha ,
ya , I heard before , foods may cause some effect ,

my sister`s son is also 8~9 years old ,
very smart kid .....

my mum , I say wan yen say thanks to you ,
she smile and say : " wah....."

Wan Yen Chuah said...

oh i see... your sister's son also 8 ~ 9 years old... so coincident !!
thanks for your regards ....
and you have a very kind of mum !! ^_*

七 禾页 said...

对了,
事情发展到如何了?
知道怎么一回事了吗?

Wan Yen Chuah said...

其实...最后...都不懂是什么事情!!
也曾回去祖家拜拜~~
之后..还有发梦但不是很密!!
渐渐的...就少了!!
但现在偶尔也会发开口梦的!!
但, 不是很利害...就不管他咯!! 呵呵~~
谢谢关心!! ^_*

七 禾页 said...

哦。。
不客气,
其实也是八八而已,哈哈哈哈~

Joey Chong said...

你的儿子好点了吗?

Wan Yen Chuah said...

thanks for your regards, he is quite ok already !!